Today’s episode of the Autism Empowerment Podcast is Part 2 in a 3-part series on Autism Diagnosis Disclosure. We discuss reasoning and strategies in Disclosing a Child’s Autism Diagnosis to family, friends, agencies, schools, medical providers and others in the community.
Episode Title: Disclosing a Child’s Autism Diagnosis to Family Members and others in the Community
In this episode of the Autism Empowerment Podcast, we discuss thoughts on how and when to disclose a child’s autism diagnosis to family members, friends, medical providers, schools and others in the community.
This is Part 2 in a 3-part series on Autism Diagnosis Disclosure. In Episode #10, we discussed how, when and why to disclose an autism diagnosis to a child. In Episode #12, we will cover autism diagnosis disclosure for adults.
Learn from and hear anecdotes from autistic and neurodiverse adults and parents who have had over 13-years-experience disclosing autism diagnoses. Join Karen and John Krejcha from Autism Empowerment today.
The issue of disclosure is one of those topics that everyone with an autism diagnosis is going to face at some point multiple times. Who do I tell? What? When? Why? How much?
Once your child has a diagnosis of autism, one of your first questions may be, “So who do I tell?” Family? Neighbors? Agencies? Providers? The general population?”
We can’t cover every family dynamic or personal situation, so what we’re doing in this episode is giving an overview including why to tell, who to tell, common talking points, suggestions and examples that you can personalize to your own family’s needs.
In most cases, disclosure is about your autistic child being successful, respected and accepted in whatever environment they are in. Disclosure, when done in a positive and meaningful way helps to ensure that your child has their needs met by others. It also can facilitate a positive attitude toward autism on the part of others and promote autism acceptance.
When our extended families, our friends, our neighbors, and those in our community have positive, successful interactions with our children on the autism spectrum, we help to support a positive future for them that involves increased inclusion and opportunities. Our children on the spectrum are going to grow up into adults on the spectrum. The more that we can do to positively support their inclusion, independence and acceptance in society, the better for all.
Generally speaking, why tell others about your child’s autism diagnosis? (4:30)
If your child will require a level of accommodation, modification, support, service, or just patience and understanding in a certain situation, telling someone about the diagnosis can often help make this happen and may smooth things out for all involved.
There are times when full disclosure is needed.
There are times when partial disclosure will suffice.
There will be occasions when you should not disclose at all.
As parents of children on the autism spectrum, we have all been (or will be at some point) in a situation when unexpected or inappropriate behaviors associated with autism made others misunderstand, feel uncomfortable, or even judge us as parents or judge our children.
It is not necessary to tell everyone you meet or know that your child is on the autism spectrum. But if not saying anything will put your child in safety danger, in jeopardy of having a meltdown or put others at a disadvantage in interacting with your child, it is worth learning how to disclose the diagnosis effectively, proactively and compassionately to best support your child.
On a very basic level, who should you tell about your child’s autism diagnosis? (5:43)
Certain places are necessary to disclose to in order to qualify for and access autism and disability-related services and support.
What about disclosure to family and close family friends? (8:16)
When a parent makes a decision to disclose to an adult family member, particularly a grandparent, this may cause a lot of anxiety. How might you want to share your child’s diagnosis? (9:56)
How will the disclosure of your child’s autism diagnosis to other people potentially help your child? (16:47)
What initial and difficult reactions might you encounter with adult family members before acceptance? (24:32)
What about disclosure of an autism diagnosis to brothers or sisters? (29:42)
What if a family member comes to you and asks how they can help or be an ally? (32:48)
What about the confidentiality of information? What is the difference between HIPAA and FERPA? (36:24)
Building relationships with teachers and navigating the school system resources are at SpectrumLife.org - Articles in Education Section
What does disclosure look like out in the community? (39:36)
What are the differences between Passive Disclosure, Reactive Disclosure and Active Disclosure? (40:42)
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